What accessories would make this dress appropriate for my grandfather's funeral?

My grandfather passed away on Friday night, and his funeral is Wednesday afternoon. My family prefers that I wear black, so I have a black dress that I could wear. It's sleeveless (has straps) and about knee-length. The only black shoes I have that would possibly be appropriate are some pointy-toed flats and a pair of peep-toe pumps with a moderate heel. I also have either sheer black tights or nude nylons to cover my legs, and I'm also probably going to try to find a black cardigan or something to cover my shoulders. What combination of these accessories would work the best for the funeral?

What accessories would make this dress appropriate for my grandfather's funeral?
First, I'm really sorry about your grandfather and it's very respectful that you are thinking about what to wear at his funeral.





I think a cardigan is a good idea, or if you have a blazer that would also work, too.





I would wear the flats, only because you may be walking/standing a lot, and if you wear heels, your feet and legs might get tired.





Since you already have a black dress to wear, I'd wear nude pantyhose so it's not all black.





Also, do you have any jewelry that your grandmother and grandfather gave you, or jewelry that maybe they gave your mom or parents? A necklace or a pair of earrings, or a bracelet from your grandparents would be such a nice thing to wear to the funeral - and to honor the memory of your grandfather.





Take care - Julie
Reply:Definitely the cardigan, showing skin is not appropriate at a funeral; I personally would go with the peep-toe pumps (make sure if you have painted toes that it's a dark colour %26amp; not bright red!) and the nude nylons, they'll break up the black a bit and (in my opinion) look nicer.
Reply:Definitely the cardigan, it's a sombre affair remember. I'd go for the heeled pumps. Nude tights would break up from entire black. Pearls would make the look classic, if you have any.
Reply:It is no longer common to wear all black to funerals. That widowed look is completely out of date. I suggest the peep-toe heels, nude nylons, and a colored cardigan, like maroon, blue, green, etc.
Reply:Yeah, cover your shoulders.


Sorry about your grandfather, but, seriously, no one is going to be looking at your outfit -- they are going to be remembering and mourning your relative. It's not about you.



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