Does ultra-stylish clothes/accessories draw a man to a woman?

I spend lots and lots of cash buying ultra-stylish clothes, shoes and jewelry so I can knock out the competition (other women) and so guys can notice me and hopefully ask me out. I do this because I still don't have a boyfriend, which is bad b/c I'm turning 23 this year, and I really want a man because I want to get married before I'm 26. However, I noticed that no guy has approached me yet, but all they do is stare at me or flirt with me. What is their problem? And is it nice clothes and accessories that make a man attracted to or want to date a woman? And how can I stop competing with other women (because it makes me sooo depressed when I compete with other women, especially when I do so with my sisters)?

Does ultra-stylish clothes/accessories draw a man to a woman?
Why are you trying so hard to impress everyone else? You sound really, really desperate and it shows when you go out because no guy will take you seriously.





Impress yourself first. Of course, I realize that it takes time and effort to go inside yourself and be completely honest to the point that you don't care what other people think about you but (trust me) it CAN be done.





I'll never go back to the way I was before when I thought make-up, hair and clothes were the only way to attract a man.





Never.





Now that's I'm really in love with my soul and not my clothes and make-up, I have to say I'm the happiest - no, the word would be most "joyful" - I've ever been in my life. And my husband loves it! (btw, I've just married my 2nd husband 6 months ago. My first husband only wanted a model who only thought about clothes, hair and make-up. He's such a loser)





Good luck!
Reply:No. No. N o. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. The only men that will notice stylish are gay men.
Reply:Most guys are not that interested in stylish clothes and shoes.


If they were you would see them at fashion shows, and clothing stores, to pick up women.I think women and Gay men are attracted to that sort of thing. The largest % of guys are visual, and decide to approach on shape, face, and believe it or not confidence and how you carry your self. I suggest you place your self in the environment that the guys you want to attract are most likely to be. And look at selling strategies, and why people buy.
Reply:well i think that men are attracted to women who dress nicely and are pretty or they wouldnt be looking. but once a guy notices you there has to be something else about you. they have to like your personality or they wont inquire any further (unless they are just looking for some action and you dont want guys like that). and if they dont make the first move to ask about a second date you should. just make it casual and not to formal.





and to stop competing with your sister, be confident in yourself. and try not to pay attention to what your sister is wearing or what guys she gets, just focus on yourself and believe in yourself.





hope this helps.
Reply:The only thing guys care about in fashion is whether it looks sexy or not. If they're flirting with you, they obviously think you're attractive, but your killer sense of style may intimidate them. Try making the first move, and I think you'll have a little more luck. Also, remember, guys like their women hot, but your personality is also very important, so play nice.
Reply:People are attracted to people with high self confidence. You have to believe your "IT" and other people will too. You can look great ,but if you don't believe in your self and you'll probably have a hard time finding someone.
Reply:Spend your money elsewhere. It is nice to own some nice clothes, however, you have to get out and enjoy life. That is where you will meet your perfect man.



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